ATH: "Keeping It 100: Being A Happy Family Ain't Easy"

And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.

‘O you who believe, verily among your wives and your children are enemies for you, so beware of them. But if you pardon (them) and overlook and forgive (their faults), then verily, Allah is All-Forgiving, Most-Merciful. 

The Messenger of Allah (???? ???? ???? ?????) has instructed us how to expiate this fitnah. Hudhaifah ( ??? ???? ???) reported: “We were sitting one day with ‘Umar ( ??? ???? ???) when he asked us: ‘Which one of you memorized the words of Allaah’s Messenger (???? ???? ???? ?????) concerning trials?’ I replied: ‘I did, just as he (???? ???? ???? ?????) said it.’ He said: ‘You are quick to respond!!’ I said:‘ A man’s trials with regard to his family, his wealth, his children and his neighbor are expiated by prayer, fasting, charity, and commanding (good) and forbidding (evil).’”