Manhood, Masculinity and The Woman 8

2:223. Your women (not “wives”) are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. And give good tidings to the believers.

In this life the Universe is the place where you sow and reap. So, act in the Universe in accordance with your human freedom but as you pursue what you desire put your soul first and be conscious of Allah and the fact that you will meet him after this life.  And the believers have nothing but good to look forward to.

42: 20. To any that desires the harth of the Hereafter We give increase in his harth; and to any that desires the harth of this world We grant somewhat thereof but he has no share or lot in the Hereafter. 

Whoever wants reward of the promised destiny we increased them in the wherewithal to gain it. and whoever only wants the reward that the desire for things that the material life provides we give them some of the things that the material life provides but they will have no share of the reward of the promised destiny.

Harth- Ha-Ra-Thaa = To till and sow, cultivate, cut a thing, acquire (goods), to collect wealth, seek sustenance, work or labour, plough, to study a thing thoroughly, to examine/look into/scrutinize/investigate, call a thing to mind.

Harth has the meanings; Garden, Gain, acquisition, reward (gain), recompense (gain), seed-produce, what is grown/raised by means of seed/date-stones/planting. A wife or road that is much trodden.