Wonder Why They Call You B**tch? What happened to Real Ladies?

Webster dictionary defines a "lady" as a woman of refinement or a polite name for any woman. Our lovely women have progressed to become highly educated, motivated to accomplishing their dreams in the workforce, and also great mothers. However, some of our women have misconstrued ideas of what defines a "Lady". Why do our some of our women utilize the word "Bitch" as recreation when socializing with their friends? Is television shows like Bad girls Club, The Real Housewives, etc. influencing or are they a reflection of what our women have become? Why do some women have or show a lack of respect for other women, ie. their success, the men they are dating, or their choice of style. Lastly, what really defines a lady?????