Oh, so you won't Submit???!!!!!

The word "Submission" has always seemed to have negative connotations when discussed in the realm of relationships or marriage primarily in the eyes of the female. Some People view "Submission" in relationships as being someone's slave physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc. So without being submissive as a man or a woman, can a relationship or marriage exist???? Are there specified and defined roles of the man and woman in relationships? Why is it hard for some women to play their role in the relationship? Are some women trained or conditioned in the mindset of a man? Let Your Voice Be Heard!!!!!