Are you falling in love for the right reasons?

The word "Love" is the most powerful word ever created, used, and thought about.  Love is probably the only word that overpowers every feeling in the human body.  When you love something or someone, you will do anything to keep it or them.  Everyday people question there relationships, friendships, committments, and marriages.  The thoughts come to mind when they question themselves or their partner, "Do I really love this person? Do I really want to spend the rest of my life with person?" So the question is, "Are you falling in love for the right reason??"  Do people really understand what love truly consist of in a relationship? When being in a marriage where you did not love someone at the beginning but later you told your self "I can "Grow" to love them", Is this true love? When people have a child out of wedlock, then rush to get married, can they truly find love within their relationship even though they were not in love? Why do some people choose to find love based on status and wealth when searching for a mate? What are signs that show you that you are not in love but you are actually in lust for someone?  Let Your Voice Be Heard!!!!