Th e Love Doctor Saturday Mix Musical Interlude 90's Lovers Rock

Love....Four letters that cause great joy..and much pain depending on whether it is Returned in like or is unrequited. It gives great drive to many to do their best in hopes of impressing and winning over the one they love.

One big misconception is that we are ruled by our hearts in this regard... Totally wrong. Our hearts are nothing but an organ that pumps our blood and keeps us alive. Love is fed by our minds and our emotions and our needs and wants.
We do indeed choose who we attach our emotions to...rightfully so or tragically so. We ... our conscious mind makes that choice much as we wish to blame our heart as we have been programmed to believe in all the romanticism fed to us.

Love... who we love..when we love...and how we love is up to us and our choices. We are wholly responsible for all we do in that regard. We make a conscious decision to allow our emotions to attach to a person in our romanticized thought processing.

When all seems to be going haywire in the relationship and our rational mind says bail out now...we tend to lean on the romantic notion that we can fix it all to work. Logic takes a backseat...our decision..not the heart's which is probably cussing out the brain and emotions for endangering it's welfare by putting the body through so much stress and tension.

Love is to be enjoyed and shared with respect, tenderness kind words and actions. Failing to acquire these tenets from a prospective partner .. have the good sense to bail before you get so involved it becomes a pariah on your existence to continue being around someone you have come to detest who denigrates you. Choices...it is what separates us from the other creatures..the ability to reason and become proactive towards our own welfare.

Choose wisely...Love Wisely.

Pontiak