Relationships and Weight

I've been talking to several people about this subject and wanted to bring it to you. What is your view of beauty? Is it certain dress/pants size or is about the person intellectually? Does it matter what a man or woman looks like physically to love/care for them. I want your views. Does race/ethnic background matter? I can't wait to hear your questions and comments on this one. Call in so you weigh in on the matter..LOL