What Happens When You Get the Swirlz?

This is a somewhat politically incorrect conversation.  It is about interracial dating.  It seems some people believe the color of one’s skin can determine whether or not they make a suitable mate.  Is that valid?

In the 1970s, feminists told young girls they should “try their options”.  By that, it meant women should have sex with as many men as possible before marriage.  They said if men can do it women can.  The harsh lesson women learned was high quality men do not marry promiscuous women.  They date and have sex with them.  That’s it.

The new slogan is “expand your options”.  That means date people based on skin color.  They call it ‘swirling’.  Like “trying your options”, this latest fad does not appear to be producing satisfactory results.  Many women are being pumped and dumped instead of becoming wives.     

Perhaps the real problem has nothing to do with dating strategies.  It may have everything to do with how prepared you are for the person you claim to want.  If you have behaviors and a mindset that is not compatible for the person of your desire, it is time to do a complete mindset overhaul. If, instead, you try new dating strategies, it will most likely yield the same returns as the others – nothing. 

Nevertheless, there are women like Crystal Swirlz, Cynthia G and many others who have become YouTube sensations. They are promoting interracial dating, expanding your options and many other ideals to help women who cannot find a compatible mate. 

It would be great if men and women of all races could sit at the table for this discussion. Tonight we are going to address the real culprit of failed dating strategies.