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With the growth of the "Me, Too" movement in which so many women stepped forth to say they had been sexually molested by a male in their lives, many are seeking to shift blame to women, who they say are too sexually "suggestive" in their dress. This idea points to the centuries old practice of holding women responsible for men's attitudes that women are just things to be used for sex anyway - and if a woman looks attractive she's fair game. It's the predator/prey relationship that men teach other men, which keeps all women in a state of danger of being sexually abused. The abuse can be forced sex as in rape, or deceptive sex, as in pretending to love a woman, convincing her to have sex, then dumping her after the curiousity has been satisfied. It's a cruel practice, yet it has been considered acceptable for centuries. Some women have chosen to turn the tables and treat men the same way - get money from them, get sexual pleasure from them, then dump them for another conquest. This is the emotionally unhealthy state of affairs between men and women which gives rise to TV shows like "Maury" that celebrate male/female sexually dysfunctional relationshps. How do we stop this war between the sexes and create genuine relationships based on mutual love, respect for ourselves, respect for family, children, each other and the sex act? How do mothers teach sons not to abuse females?