What Did Your Parents Demonstrate To You About Relationships?

Today we'll shar a solid list of Do's and How To's in order to create a good relationship in your own life:

WHY MARRIAGE?

1. Children's Rights

- Rights of inheritance of family property protected by law.

- Right to have a daily in-home relationship with both parents

- Right to know blood lineage, gemetoc makeup

- Right to be taught skills of cooperation by watching parents interact

2. Parents Ability To Raise Children Strengthened by Cooperation

- Reinforcement of rules by both parents

- Support of parental authority, father backs up the mother's word

- Respect for order and self control by seeing it established by both parents

- Parents able to demonstrate harmonious interaction so children see what it looks like.

HOW TO CREATE A HARMONIOUS MARRIAGE?

1, Examine the example in your own life. Did your parents' relationship make you feel good or bad? Anything they did to each other that made you feel bad should not be repeated.

- Treat your spouse as you would wish to be treated. Speak to them kindly.

- Don't lie to them, cheat them, steal from them, or physically harm them.

- Both male and female must agree to these principles of right treatment of each other.

2. Be honest about your own faults and strive to overcome them. 

- Strive to heal your own past traumas, recognize how you may have been affected by an absent, abusive or addicted parent.

- Be realistic about your spouse, accept their shortcomings, be supportive as they strive to heal.

- Know the difference between a serious disagreement that must be resolved and a petty disagreement that can be dismissed.

3. Your spouse and children are not your possessions. No one should be beaten into submission. Respect them.

- Learn how to negotiate and compromise.