Toxic Male Masculinity : What does this word mean? Is this a word or not ?

Society wants to turn our men into waman and our woman into men. I really have a problem with this word. I believe its a made up word by a lesbien or a gay man that have been hurt by a man/ woman. Now they want everyone to pay or want to disrespect our men. Let our boys be boys. Our men need to start spending time with these boys. Because if you allow the woman to be around a boy all the time that child will pick up woman ways. Lets talk about this. You can't win wars men with fake nails, high heals and a wig on!!!  What do you think ?