Why do we do to our children what our parents did to us?

Some of us grew up with missing in action dads, mom either due to jail or drugs or maybe even just not enough love or concern about that child to care.  Do you remember when your dad called and said he was coming to pick you up, so you waited all day, and he never showed nor called. So you got upset mad, then he called 2 weeks later made an excuse so we forgave and forgot. We even excused the behavior. Next time birthday no gift, no call ,no nothing. Two weeks later he /she calles makes another excuse we forgave, forgot and even excused the behavior. Now what are we being taught as children? Why do we we do to our children what was done to you and do it to our own babies? Do you remember how that felt when your dad/mom did that missing in action to you ? The pain, rejection, abandonment issues. So now were grown and have all kinds of issues, So because of what we've gone through it developed daddy, mama issue. lets talk about it. Childhood is everything and  if you have a bad childhood you have a bad adult life. Lets talk about it.

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