Jenny White/ Do you avoid someone in church?

I have noticed someone in church not noticing who was speaking, but looking around and trying to see other people who they were and what their wearing. 

I noticed nothing. When I was in the funeral and I did not notice what people were wearing and what they were saying. I only were looking at the person lying in the coffin.

In a funeral you can be very quiet and still or very nervous and loud, but either way can be one or the other.