Tired of Sexy: "What else you bring to the Table"

In Today's society, being sexy has become the most important characteristic for some women.  From the size of their breast, booty, lips, length of hair, eye lashes and etc, has lead to the epidemic of trying to find their pursuit of being happy and "Sexy".  But what does being "Sexy" mean???? Its always good to have something to look at, but what about what you bring to the table?  

What makes a black woman sexy? What makes a black woman desirable for her king? What characteristics do men really look for in a wife? Does the 80/20 rule really matter? Do men really want a woman who looks Sexy and can do acrobatics in the bedroom but can not cook and clean?  What will the next generation consist of, will it be a society of sexy unmarried women with a bunch of kids or a society of educated, motherly, supportive wives?