Self Hatred

Self Hatred is the shame resulting from strong dislike of yourself or your actions.  It shapes the way you think, choices you make, and how you live.  Some People are impressionable towards some things in their life that makes them look at themselves as less than others or forming a dislike towards a person due to what they have and/or circumstances.

What causes a person to dislike themselves? How does this effect the peers in which a person may encounter? What are the reason some black people hate their own kind, (fighting each other, killing each other with no remorse, not wanting to help others when you are doing good)? What effects does this have on our children when they see this self hatred?  Does self hate of skin tone effect dark and light skinned black people?  How does self hate effect how men and women think about their personal appearances such as the clothes we wear, black men following fashionable trends to impress a woman, some women having the European look and getting larger breasts and butts?  What ways does this self-hate shape the decisions we make towards our relationships we make with people?  What are some of the solutions to help fix and prevent self-hatred continuing to escalate?