Valentine's Day: The Perception Part 2

Valentine's Day, What does it mean to you? Of course this is a pagan holiday around expressing your love for someone.  But is it really about the love for both parties? Or is it more geared towards one gender than the other?  However, today we would like to discuss the Perception of Valentine's Day.  

What is the real purpose of Valentine's Day?  Is Valentine's day still relevant in the 21st century or not? What are some reasons Valentine's Day may be viewed as not like it was 10 to 20 years ago?  Is this day really about Love or Receiving Gifts?  Is Valentine's Day helping or hurting relationships?  Do men feel pressured to always participate in Valentine's day or not?  Besides sex, what can a women do for her man on Valentine's day? What are some things single people who wanto to celebrate Valentine's day do?