DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?..... WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN ?

WHEN YOU HAVE A LIFE CHANGE, ESPECIALLY A BROKEN HEART, YOU ARE OFTEN TOLD , 'you gotta love yourself first'... WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN? WHO CAN TELL YOU YOU DONT LOVE YOURSELF, OR WHAT IS THE SIGN OF LOVING YOURSELF..... people who are searching outside of themselves have a particular need... are we supposed to find everything you need in yourself?  Selfish Love, Aloneism, and Lonliness