Dr. Mother Love & Cool TLC on How to Handle Getting Fired, Jaime Foxx

Aww Shay, you lost your job, now what? Eat your way, sex your way, drink/drug, go postal through it, or worse?  How realistic are these steps?

1) Steps for how to get over being fired

Let yourself feel your emotions. When you get fired, it's likely that you'll feel a mix of emotions. ...

Focus on yourself. ...

Reflect on the positives. ...

Reassess your wants and needs.

Set new goals. ...

Make healthy decisions. ...

Take a break from social media. ...

Find areas of improvement

What NOT TO DO after being fired 

You Should Never Do These Things After Getting Fired

Don't burn bridges. ...

Don't leave without securing references. ...

Don't wait to find work. ...

Don't apply to new roles with an old resume. ...

Don't take to social media. ...

Don't bow out of the transition process. ...

Don't sign anything. ...

Don't rule out the possibility of wrongful termination.

2) Understanding African American speak, Jaime Foxx posted "They killed this dude name Jesus... What do you think they'll do to you?" Then Jennifer Aniston was offended. REALLY? He then said, "I want to apologize. I know my choice of words has caused offense, I'm sorry. That was never my intent. To clarify, I was betrayed by a fake friend and that's what I meant by "they" not anything more. I only have love in my heart for everyone. I love and support the Jewish community. In the Black community, "They killed Jesus" is a common Black colloquialism that warns people against trusting too easily"  Did he need to apologize? 

 How long have Black people been OFFENDED by the things white people say and the way they treat others? REALLY?