Secrets to Controlling Your Own Destiny

We are a product of the home we come from but we are also controlled by our thoughts about ourselves. We can learn to build self confidence through learning tro change our negative thoughts to positive one's through affirmations. The only way I know to demonstrate this is to tell you my personal story of how I turned my personal negatives to positive one's. In Psychodrama you get to create your own script to act out and verbalize thoughts so you can get beyound what is holding you back from succeeding. In Transactional Analysis you write a contract with yourself to turn your negatives into positives and set dates of when you expect to achieve those personal goals. Negative feeling about ourselves sabatoge our finding personal growth and self esteem. There was a book called Scripts People Live where it tells us how to rescript our personal thoughts and affirmations to build our self esteem. When you look at the cultures our ancesters come from and their early experiences, they passed along those traditions to subsequent generations. It's like when a child fears a strom not because of his personal experiences but because a parent feared the storm due to their experiences. The Nature/Nurture theory. As young children we are open and accepting, it is only later after we learn what fear is that we let it take over our lives develop unrealistic fears. The reason this is important because it holds us back from doing the things we love to do or finding success in our professional lives. People who need to listen to this are business owners, coaches, counselors, tharapists, unemployed.