Learning To Communicate in an Effective Way Without Being Abusive

We often believe that we are communicating effectively when we are not listening to ourselves when we talk to someone. For instance, often people can be abusive in the way they talk to you and yet they reason that when you were parent back to I am built talking to them the way they talk to you, this is a good example of poor communication because these are things that we learn in the home. If you come from a home that is negative where everyone is abusive and criticizing everything you do then this is the way you learn to communicate with others. When you learn how to recognize what you are doing as being abusive behavior than you will continue this behavior, but when you learn to recognize that your communication is abusive behavior and you all willing to change and learn how to talk to someone more effectivey then you will have better relationships with the people around you. I often tell someone we are the product of the home we come from and unless we learn how to change our behavior then you will continue to communicate in an abusive mnner to the family and you are also letting them know that this is how you expect to be treated in the future. People who should listen to this show are psychiatrist, psychologist, mental health workers, coaches, and therapist.