How to Express Love to Your Partner in Their Love Language

This is where the famous love languages come into play. Most of us know the 5 love languages that are in Gary Chapman’s book, published in 1992, but not all of us know how to show love in these languages.  

Words of affirmation

Quality time

Receiving gifts

Physical touch

Acts of service

We typically know how we want to be loved but often do not take the time to understand how the person we are with wants to be loved.

Here is How You Can Love Your Partner in Their Love Language 

1. Words of Affirmation.

If this is your partner’s love language, you need to be very patient.

Your partner knows that you love them, but they would appreciate being reminded verbally. They need you to remind them that they are special and you love them.

2. Receiving Gifts.

This language is often misunderstood and largely attributed to women.

3. Physical Touch.

For these people, appropriate physical touch is the way they connect with their loved one.

You need to clearly understand if your partner is comfortable with public display affection (PDA) or not.

4. Acts of Service.

These people believe that actions speak louder than words. You telling them that you love them is good, but showing them that you do is more important. The selfless and thoughtful acts don’t have to be grand gestures, just the small and thoughtful ones will remind them that you love them. 

5. Quality Time.

These people value spending time with their loved ones, and that is good enough for them.

If you show them love in any of the above languages, they will most likely not turn you down, but spending time makes them feel most loved.

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